Being a black woman curse or not?

Saturday, January 05, 2008
Current mood: frustrated

First off I am going to start off with something that pissed me off by something that was said. When I was in this one store in the mall, I have came across hearing them talk about this. This one guy said, " I would never date or marry a black woman because it would be too many problems. Maybe a woman mixed with a little black would be fine. But the only way I would interact with a black woman is through sex and friendship. Besides I don't want my child having "nappy hair" or being part of many problems. So I think I will go for a chick of another race or just find one that is mixed."The other guy said,"Well yea I herd that black chicks are good in bed too!"After that I wanted to walk up to them and go off on them. I was very offended by that statement. Especially when one of the guys was black. You know and thats not the first time. I have never herd anything that was so out in the open before.I did some thinking and I thought. Why do people make it seem like it is so fucking bad to date a black woman. So of the excuses for guys are:Their hair is nappyThey are loud They are ghettoThey are crazyThey are more than needy ect....NOT ALL BLACK WOMEN ARE LIKE THIS!And then some of the things that men say black women are good for sexcooking entertainmentSports ect....Its not just that there are a hell of alot of problems besides lack of interest in men.First of all before I moved away from home I had to stock up on alot of black hair care products becasue I knew that the valley is really not a black based area. I managed to find one place and I sells ok products but not stuff I use on a regular basis. When you do try to get your hair done at the salon motherfuckers want to charge you 3 times more then normal.Speaking of hair I have nappy hair. Why in the fuck is it that black hair dressers know how to do non ethnic hair. But the people with non ethnic hair have no training in doing ethic hair.Second A BLACK WOMANS BODY IS NO JOKE!Black women are also known for having big asses,boobs, hips, and thighs. But yet when we go into a store we have a hard ass time finding some good fitting clothes. Yea some people say well oh there's FUBU, South Pole, Apple bottom ect... I dont wanna be stuck wearing that shit all they time ( i hardley do) but I dont like being labled by certain name brands.HAS IT EVER OCUURED TO YOU THAT NOT ALL BLACK WOMEN ARE GHETTO. Honeslty I have I hard ass time understanding ebonics. I cant even imitate a ghetto person. There are quite a few black women out there who are not ghetto so get those fucking sterotypes out of your head!Why is it ok for us to be in the bed with you but not be in love with you?! Do some of you feel that some times black women are good for fufill your sexual needs and not your heart. What is it? Are some of you scared to handle some real women who tell you the truth and want things to work.Get the fucking idea out of your head "the lighter the better". I say "Well are all human beings (same) with differnt shapes, colors, and sizes dont be ashamed of me bacasue I am not your perfect image. Sometimes those people that you want are not always no nice.I am not against interacial dating but come on dont leave the black women at the want last of nothing list. I myself am not into just men of my race I keep my interest based off of personality. Besides my family is the rainbow tribe. International love is here!Black men if yo mama is black then you should already know.Just because a black woman is being a hard ass sometimes. Don't automatically think she don't like you. It's just tuff love.men dont reject a black woman because she doesnt meet your expectations on a woman.Black woman stop trying to make your self look less black. (example light skninned black woman quit trying to make yours sleves look white)

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