Today I watched his video on how people of different ethnicities in the UK wanted to look like the white man or white woman and I was shocked by what these people were willing to do just to look like them. After that, I thought about myself and how society defined me on how attractive I really am. It's so strange how many if not all of us wants something the other person has. Or at least have thought about it here and there. Why is it that certain features that black women have are considered ugly but considered hot on a woman of another race? I have things that men find attractive but it makes all the difference due to the fact I'm black. This doesn't only apply to black women but women of all different ethnicities. I believe there is nothing wrong with changing your look here and there. The question is how far are you willing to go?
I realize that I will never be a white,mexican,or Asian woman. I know that I will never be Americas next top model or ms. America. I will never be a size 0 or size 2. Do I want to be? Hell no.
Some may disagree and think that I am insane for not looking after these women. It's just something I don't want to be period. As a child I never bothered to pick up those magazines that show pictures of women with the perfect everything. They also tell you what you are doing wrong with a relationship. The list goes on. Do any these people who often pic up these magazines realize WHO is writing the article and air brushing those photos?
I took a good look at my body and realize that I have " a million dollar body". They pay millions of dollars to get my tan, my thick hair, and lips. They pay millions to get my chest, my hips and butt. Even my long eye lashes. I get all my shit for free. I am the total package. Not to sound cocky it's the truth. But what an asshole named society said that if a woman is black do not see these qualities as something wonderful. It makes her look fat and trashy.
But you don't think a woman is trashy for putting unnatural shit in her body? Some people may argue and say that I or another black woman can be just as equally wrong for wearing hair that isn't ours or putting dangerous chemicals in. You can always cut your hair. You can always wear it natural. Hair is always changeable and it can grow back. Having your legs broken to be taller you can't replace that.
I realize that I am not the prettiest or skinniest woman. But due to certain things I was born with. You can't put me and an entire race of women down just because you and many other idiots out there think we all look he same or a certain way. The truth is with every race out there, you have your lighter and darker version of that race, facial features a the list goes on.
Just like I can't say that every black women has my features. Many do but some don't. Thats why when people say they aren't attracted to women of a certain race. It is even more funny when people often forget that certain races belong in a group one race. Some guy say that he is not attracted to Asian women and the next day he thinks women from India are hot.... I've seen I happen many times.
I do admit when I was younger I use to be amongst those ignorant people who said they don't find a specific race attractive. Over the years I found that what I said was untrue and seen some pretty attractive looking men of different races. It all depends on if you find that MAN NOT RACE attractive.
I love the fact that we all created to look and act different. What's the point of trying to change who you are to look like Victoria beckum, beyonce, or anyone else. Do you really hate yourself that much because you don't like some girl in a magazine? Why is it in your best interest to hate me because I have a look I was born with? Ladies and gentlemen realize that you can always burn off that fat and change your hair. But I refuse to kiss your ass to become your human barbie. I am not plastic. I am all natural. If you don't like I you can kiss my natural YES NATURAL BLACK ASS. I am a million dollar woman and I have a million dollar body. Not to sound cocky but it's true.
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